So, its 130 in the morning and im not quite yet ready to sleep so i decides to write. Well the truth is, i just finished taking my midnight snack, a pack of maggi sedap and a mangga. Yummehhh
Back to the tajuk. Back then when i was in um, i had this habit well i was trained to develop this habit of wishing people good morning. Well its obviously my roomates lah kan yang selalu dapat wish ni. Not only morning wish lah kan, its more to greeting. Whenever i was in my room doing works or just lying and scrolling, and then my roomates came back, i just throw a simple hi and will automatically ask her day. Well, it may looks simple but that a little things that most of the people overlook at.
Imagine you had a rough difficult and rasa nak carut kind of day yang kau jumpa semua orang dari lecturer bawak ke kawan terus pada boyfriend semua jadi punca kau nak mengamuk. Then, the one place u wish to be adalah dekat bilik kau cuddle dengan bantal, so balik dengan hati meradang, masuk bilik tetiba di sambut dengan suara penuh ceria rumet kau tanya your day. Kau tak sampai hati nak marah sebab rumet kau completely innocent, and u will definitely started to spill everything. Well, i did most of the time. As time past, its not only me, my roomates do the same thing jugak.
Another situation where, imagine kau memang dah dikatakan rutin for almost one whole year woke up in the morning and terus gapai fon and gigih bukak passcode wassap just to text your loved one morning wish regardless kau tau dia x bangun lagi atau dia dah 2-3 jam bangun memulakan hari. These could be anyone, your parents, bestfriends, partner. Tak kisah lah sesapa pon, tapi yg pasti kau ade rutin utk wish diorang ni. Hari hari selama 10 bulan tak pernah miss. Power betul ngkorang ni, tapi one day kau decides utk xbagi. Kau rasa apa yg penerima kau akan fikir. Cuz, its their routine to get a morning wish dari kau. Kau taktau, manatau sebab wish kau tu lah penyebab dia nak teruskan kehidupan. Well it may seems so bullshit right now but believe me it happens.
Why we called something a routine?Its obviously something that you do everyday and once we tried to break this routine, trust me and believe me, its kinda seronok. When it became a routine, that means you are fully responsible towards it. Dia dah jadi macam satu kewajiban untuk kau, macam beban jugak lah. HAHHAHHAHAHAHHA tapi kalau kau tengok benda ni as beban, so once you lift it, trust me, it is the feels of freedom. Walaupun sikit. Tapi kalau kau amek, untuk wish orang ni as a I dont know, a saja saja thing just to make sure u are alive oruare awake or u are ready to memulakan your hari, trust me, its kinda hard kalau nak tinggal camtu je.
I had this routine also but its slowly faded away as time goes because of laziness or mungkin sebab dah terlalu selesa kot. But never mind I guess the other party dah ade orang lain yg lebih layak untuk dia wish kot. Kahkahkah camni rupanya perasaan kene ditch dengan member sendiri. Sobs sobs.
Anyway, if it happened to u guys to have a greeting buddy, regardless how busy you are, just take your phone and simply type "Good morning, have a good day." or " Selamat memulakan hari xoxo" or maybe like " all the best today." sent it away tak kiralah via whatsapp ke twiiter ke atau status FB sekalipon, theres someone somewhere actually wanted to read the wishes.
Never underestimate the power of a simple greetings. For you, it maybe looks like nothing but for someone its everything.
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